Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: gnu
Date: 08 Sep 14 - 03:48 AM

Any plans for Friday night, Amos?

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: gnu
Date: 08 Sep 14 - 03:36 AM

Ditto Janie and CL. Good and hopeful news.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: ChanteyLass
Date: 07 Sep 14 - 11:37 AM

Always good to leave a door open and to mend fences.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: Janie
Date: 07 Sep 14 - 11:25 AM

That is good news, Maggie. Not just good, exciting!

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 07 Sep 14 - 11:10 AM

Here's a generally positive report to help lift the mood.

Our family (four siblings) fell apart to some degree when our parents died within six months of each other in 1997-98. One sibling is a sociopath and made life hell for a couple of years. It caused a general chilling effect for the rest of us, and hard feelings from the trouble he stirred up. It took a long time before I was finally able to ask the other two "what were you thinking?" about some of their actions in response to the youngest's tumult.

I think we've all lost track of the youngest, he has separated himself and isolated his child and former partner from our family, but we wish him well. I am grateful that the other three of us are back to being on good terms. When my nephew turns 18 I'll reach out and offer our friendship, and hope his view of the rest of us hasn't been poisoned by his father's behavior. I bring this up now because my recently-graduated son has moved to start a new job in the area where my brother and sister live, and they have welcomed him with open arms and good advice, in those few occasions when it seemed suitable to offer it.

It's good when you can put [most of] your family back together.

SRS

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 06 Sep 14 - 10:16 PM

condolences & hugs to Mary

love from sandra

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 06 Sep 14 - 02:26 PM

What Sinsull said.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: Janie
Date: 06 Sep 14 - 07:50 AM

Oh Mary, I'm so sorry.   I hope you did have the opportunity to tell him of your love. {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: Nigel Paterson
Date: 06 Sep 14 - 06:40 AM

Gnu, I agree absolutely, but I've been wondering recently if some of us are suffering from what might be termed: "Thread Fatigue"? To quote your words: "I think just being here or checking up when one can is contributing to the journey and crew. We're all in the same boat eh?
    It's all too easy to feel guilty about not contributing/posting. Chasing one's tail for that "Mot Juste". If we do what we can, when we can (guilt-free!), then I see no reason why "Jane's Rainbow" shouldn't continue her voyage for as long as we have breath in our bodies & wind in the sails.

    My Dear Janie...not another word about "pulling your weight" or "earning your keep"...please (-:

    The occasional refresh might be needed, but so be it.

    So, no guilty feelings, no recriminations, we do what we can, when we can, safe in the knowledge that we are members of a crew; a team of likeminded individuals, looking out for each other & ready to respond when Life throws one of those unexpected, curved balls.
                      Much Love & many hugs & kisses to you all,
                                                                                        Nigel.
                                                                                       xxxxxx

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: gnu
Date: 06 Sep 14 - 05:39 AM

My sincerest condolences, Mary.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: maeve
Date: 06 Sep 14 - 12:08 AM

For Wendy...and all who treasure a loved one who is far away in one way or another: "...I'm lovin' you right now"

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: JennieG
Date: 05 Sep 14 - 06:19 PM

Sorry to hear that, Mary.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: ranger1
Date: 05 Sep 14 - 05:57 PM

Hugs to all. Janie, love, at least you're present. I wander off for weeks at a time. Mary, so sorry to hear of your loss. Everybody else, I love ya all.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: GUEST,pete from seven stars link
Date: 05 Sep 14 - 04:52 PM

wishing you comfort, mary.
may the memory of the better times , soften the bite of grieving.
blessings all    pete.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: maeve
Date: 05 Sep 14 - 03:03 PM

Mary, my love to you.

Janie, I'm sure I'm not telling you anything new- just saying, "You are cherished."

Starboard, port, bow, stern, peerie peapod alongside, or folk wha' paddle in the waves...canny man or wifie or bairn...thank you to all who travel with us.

Maeve, who does well to post a couple of times in a month of silence.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: ChanteyLass
Date: 05 Sep 14 - 02:30 PM

Janie, I think posting the link to Rap's thread proves that you are pulling your weight. Besides, some of us are on port watch while others are on starboard. We aren't all on duty at once. Mary, I'm sorry about your youngest brother.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: SINSULL
Date: 05 Sep 14 - 12:43 PM

Janie,
Guilt is anger turned inward. If you are beating yourself up over not posting often enough (by your standards) here, take a good hard look at what is going on in your life. Why are you angry? Who is the culprit? Sort it out and be kinder to yourself.

Meantime, I am mourning the loss of my youngest brother. He was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and died less than a month later. One day he working full time and fine, the next he was bedridden and wasting away. Never let a day go by without telling the people you love that they are precious to you.
Mary

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: maeve
Date: 05 Sep 14 - 07:05 AM

Mysha- Brilliant and accurate reply to Janie- Thank you!

Janie, if you're gonna go into uncalled-for-guilt-mode on account of not having the energy to post deeply meaningful and personal replies to each and every post here on the Rainbow, I'd better just quit trying right now.

Piffle, Woman- we're all having struggles or we wouldn't be part of the crew.

Love,

Maeve

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: Mysha
Date: 05 Sep 14 - 06:35 AM

Hi Janie,

Sitting down in the middle of a boat increases its stability.

Bye
                                                                Mysha

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 05 Sep 14 - 05:07 AM

definitely!

hugs to Janie

sandra

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: gnu
Date: 05 Sep 14 - 03:51 AM

I think just being here or checking up when one can is contributing to the journey and crew. We're all in the same boat eh?

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: Janie
Date: 05 Sep 14 - 12:41 AM

I check in daily, read, and carry every concern in my heart and meditations, but I am aware I am not posting much. So many of you are able to post something individually addressing the concerns of each person. Right now, I simply an not capable of doing that, and I am sorry. Always on board, even if not pulling my weight or earning my keep.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: Janie
Date: 05 Sep 14 - 12:23 AM

Rap doesn't post here, though he may lurk occasionally. Really doesn't matter whether he does or not. Needs some extra mojo for his beloved partner. thread.cfm?threadid=155476&messages=4

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: ChanteyLass
Date: 04 Sep 14 - 02:36 PM

What they said.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: gnu
Date: 04 Sep 14 - 05:39 AM

Glad to hear it, pete.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: billybob
Date: 03 Sep 14 - 08:54 AM

Good news Pete, sending love

Wendy xxxxxxxxx

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 03 Sep 14 - 06:02 AM

fingers crossed

sandra

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: GUEST,pete from seven stars link
Date: 02 Sep 14 - 06:09 PM

Katherine been out of hospital for weekend and her spirits have lifted. too soon to be too confidant, but hopefully the trend is up, and management being attained of her condition.
blessings    pete.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: Nigel Paterson
Date: 02 Sep 14 - 07:31 AM

Wendy, enjoyed seeing the photos of your Mother's Birthday. Very pleased to read that you decided against the full 91 candles. Just lighting them would have taken forever! Getting the right medication & the right dosage for your Samantha might take time. I've learned over the years that Pharmacology is not an exact science. It is my earnest wish that she makes a steady, well managed recovery. I fully endorse your comments about the NHS. Ann & I have had to make increasing use of many NHS clinics, consultants, our lovely GP, as the ageing process has ploughed an ever-deepening furrow. The NHS has, more than once, saved both our lives.

Ok, I'm off to the galley to meet gnu for my first lesson in backwards eating.
                                     Much Love to You All,
                                                                      Nigel & Ann.
                                                                      xxxxxxxxxx

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: billybob
Date: 31 Aug 14 - 03:30 PM

Photos of Mothers Birthday on my FB. We all had a lovely day and she enjoyed every moment. Samantha is not at all well but hoping the meds will kick in soon,

love to you all

Wendy xxxx

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: gnu
Date: 30 Aug 14 - 07:34 PM

Yes, good news to hear of the prompt attention. We all, I assume, wonder about "the system's" response going in. Traumatic in itself.

Brekky? Thanks but no need, darlin.... it shall be the same fare I ingested at 6AM today. A large bowl of beef stew. I eat backwards in increasingly small amounts every two hours. Try it... it's good for you.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: GUEST,pete from seven stars link
Date: 30 Aug 14 - 02:54 PM

wow, such prompt action is almost a miracle ! or it might be in our area !. hopefully a glitch indeed. happy 91st to your mum, wendy.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: ChanteyLass
Date: 30 Aug 14 - 01:27 PM

Good plan for the day, Wendy, and I'm glad to read that your daughter is getting good and prompt medical attention.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: Janie
Date: 30 Aug 14 - 11:12 AM

Tell me what you want for breakfast, gnu, and if the ingredients are in the galley, I'll fix it for you. You deserve it!

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: gnu
Date: 30 Aug 14 - 10:23 AM

Ditto Janie sans coffee, tea and scones.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: Janie
Date: 30 Aug 14 - 08:03 AM

Hugs to you, your daughter and her kids, Wendy. And Happy Birthday to your mum!

Coffee, tea and scones are laid out in the Galley.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: billybob
Date: 30 Aug 14 - 06:37 AM

Thank you my lovelies xx

Her GP has responded very quickly thank goodness, saw her Tuesday , blood tests, results Wednesday, steroids Thursday, referred to hospital . Hospital phoned her Friday and prescribed another drug and are fast tracking her for a colonoscopy asap. Say what you will but, when needed, our NHS is wonderful.

I am looking after the little girls this weekend so Samantha can rest in bed. We are hoping that this is a glitch?

Mother is 91 tomorrow, so the girls will help decorate a cake ( not 91 candles this time, remember last year I nearly set fire to the house!) and hopefully we can keep the girls free of worry about mummy, trying to be as normal as possible.

love this crew,

Wendy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: GUEST,pete from seven stars link
Date: 29 Aug 14 - 11:40 AM

from me too, wendy. I just looked it up on wiki, not knowing anything about it. blessings on you and your daughter            pete.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: gnu
Date: 28 Aug 14 - 08:01 PM

Ohhh, Wendy. Thoughts and prayers.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: olddude
Date: 28 Aug 14 - 04:31 PM

Janie read your pm

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: ChanteyLass
Date: 28 Aug 14 - 03:38 PM

On their way from me, too.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 28 Aug 14 - 10:03 AM

on their way!

love to all

sandra

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: billybob
Date: 28 Aug 14 - 09:11 AM

healing thoughts needed please,

After eight healthy years my daughters Crohns has come back, she has been poorly for two weeks and it is affecting her eyes as well as her tummy. Looks like steroids again!

Wendy xxxxxxxxxxxxxx[

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: GUEST,Pete from seven stars link
Date: 28 Aug 14 - 06:19 AM

Yer only miss em when they,re not there !    Thank you servers for your service.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: Nigel Paterson
Date: 28 Aug 14 - 05:37 AM

Indeed! (-:

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: gnu
Date: 28 Aug 14 - 04:18 AM

Even servers need a break sometimes.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: gnu
Date: 25 Aug 14 - 08:41 AM

Indeed!

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: GUEST,pete from seven stars link.
Date: 25 Aug 14 - 08:02 AM

such a heartwarming post, nigel. good to see you back, and feeling so refreshed, and with bouyant outlook.       blessings       pete.

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: Nigel Paterson
Date: 25 Aug 14 - 05:50 AM

Pete, thinking especially of you & your daughter. A trying time for both of you. Good, sympathetic treatment & heaps of patience will, hopefully, get you through.

      On holiday, Ann & I were surrounded by the love & care of soo many good people. We have been visiting the same Greek island for nearly twenty years. My first, late Wife was Greek & Ann's surviving daughter's husband is Greek too. The combination of Family & many Friends garnered over the years...Greek & a truly international mix, makes for great, extended, multilingual dinners that go on into the wee hours, always ending with songs, laughter & tears. We're left feeling very loved & very special...feelings that linger...feelings that are never completely extinguished. Returning to our 'London Reality' is never easy, but what felt onerous before, now seems less of a burden & more manageable.

    It's good to be home...it's good to be back on board.
                           
    Much Love to you All,
                                    Nigel & Ann
                                    xxxxxxxxxx

Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
From: gnu
Date: 25 Aug 14 - 04:03 AM

A half hour from falling off the board. No news is good news? I hope so.