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Thread #142631   Message #3594009
Posted By: billybob
20-Jan-14 - 07:17 PM
Thread Name: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
Subject: RE: Jane's Rainbow: for all needing support & comfort
Oh my, how an evening can change your world!

I thought I would spring clean mothers bedroom, so, with her carer, we took down the curtains, washed the windows and paintwork, put up some new curtains that were a lovely shade of duck egg blue, all well with our world .

Then as I was standing on a chair , I thought the top of the wardrobe needed dusting, so took down great granddads tin box, inch of dust, two speakers, unplugged and not needed and very dusty, mum's hat box with Buckingham Palace hat(much prized) and very dusty, and found in far corner funny little black thing ( luddite that I am !!) Turns out that my brother, who I have had issues with over spending mothers money to pay for her care, has been bugging mother's bedroom and my home

I think he is worried that his inheritance might be going ? Spending mothers money on 24 hour care? But all I care about is looking after my mother, even so, it does not excuse bugging my home?

I am sure it is illegal as he has bugged the carers, and Billy and my daughter are livid!!

What do I do next? Solicitor? Police ? Oh dear ,if ever I need a voice of calm....... here I am! Need to know what to do in the morning?

Bewildered and very unhappy

Wendy xxxxx