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Thread #152446   Message #3569010
Posted By: catspaw49
22-Oct-13 - 07:05 PM
Thread Name: Curmudgeon In Hospice - [update 13 November]
Subject: RE: BS: Curmudgeon In Hospital - Oct 2013
Yeah Linn..........Not trying to run your life but I'm with Mary here. You need to have someone with Tom 24-7 pretty much so you can take care of things that need done and take care of yourself too. Right now though Tom is not safe to be alone. This will take some adjustments on his part and yours but until things improve one helluva' lot you have no options. If I were in Tom's position I would have been been frightened as hell although I would not want to say so. I got over that after an episode in the hospital and now I am open to my far too many frailties.

You need help......He needs help. Get some help. I too apologize for the bluntness.