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Thread #134335   Message #3054565
Posted By: Richie Black (misused acct, bad email)
16-Dec-10 - 04:49 AM
Thread Name: BS: How to Deal With People Complaining
Subject: BS: How to Deal With People Complaining
There are a lot of annoying people out there who like to whine and complain about others for no reason. Many of these people are passive aggressive sorts. So what is the best way to deal with them ?

Accept that when you are being complained about for something you're sure you didn't do, then it's not your problem. Realize that you are not the problem, it's the one complaining who has a problem. That's right, they have a problem.

Ask the complainer to put their complaint in writing by pivate messaging you. Tell them that it is important that they only state the facts, not their feelings. Then encourage them to give their comments to the person (or persons) who can actually do something about their complaint. Nine times out of ten, they will stop complaining and they won't write anything down.

Think of the complainer as a three year old. Their life is more suited to a little kid than a teenager because all they do is whine and complain for no reason. There is a good chance they are a sad old fart and their keypad is their only friend in life.

Here are some reasons about why people whine and complain all of the time: They are immature: mature people don't waste time whining, running to anyone who will listen and complain. They may have a big ego, or think they're better than the rest, and that's (usually) not true. If they are complaining about you and demand an apology, and you have no idea what you have done wrong, don't give it to them! It's not your fault that they are never satisfied!

People who whine and complain all of the time are very poisonous. Avoid them if possible.