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Thread #126345   Message #2811102
Posted By: gnu
13-Jan-10 - 02:11 PM
Thread Name: BS: Curmudgeon's Medical Woes - Winter 2010
Subject: RE: BS: Curmudgeon Fell -- On Way to Hospital
Linn... Been there, done that more than once. What I have found to be a very useful second approach is, "I need help. I need someone to help me find out what is going on (what the plan is... whatever) before I lose the ability to cope with the situation. Can you help me find out?"