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Thread #86802   Message #1618800
Posted By: GUEST,someone in ur same shoes
02-Dec-05 - 04:02 PM
Thread Name: BS: how long to get over a relationship?
Subject: RE: BS: how long to get over a relationship?
ok so i am in ur same situation. asking the same long? just like u do. i also feel mad at myself from time to time for not being able to just move on instead of keep going in loops, especially since it has been a yr already. it has gotten better but it's still going on and it's not healthy. it is especially so if there is no real closure. when u say ur hurting, maybe it is that closure that u need to establish. well anyhow, i will tell u what i tell myself: everything will work out, ur wound will stop the end u will survive. if something is not meant to be, then it is not meant to be, something better will be...u might not be able to find someone better, but u will certainly find someone better for u and that's what counts. keep believing that.