Mudcat Café message #1616634 The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #86802   Message #1616634
Posted By: Bobert
29-Nov-05 - 04:23 PM
Thread Name: BS: how long to get over a relationship?
Subject: RE: BS: how long to get over a relationship?
Yeah, speakin' of lists, the hurtful part is that list of memories when things were good... It's sometimes real easy to forget (or repress) the bad stuff which leaves only the good memories...

I have a old friend who I introduced to her future husband... After about 10 years she told me that she was seriously considering divorcing him because he had turned ckold towards her... Well, it wasn't a month after her telling me that that the husband was diagnosed with advanced lung cancer and died within a year after... Well, I never heard another single bad word from her about the husband... Might of fact, as time went on, she had more and more positve things to say about him and their marriage...

Strange???

So my advice to you would be to keep the good and bad lists in perspective and not allow the good one to beat up on ya'...

Hey, bottom, line, it wasn't working for you... The negatives had wiped out the positives so, yeah, remember the good times but don't let them get outta porportion...

End of Bobert's advice on this subject....

B~