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Thread #86802   Message #1616513
Posted By: GUEST,louise
29-Nov-05 - 02:01 PM
Thread Name: BS: how long to get over a relationship?
Subject: RE: BS: how long to get over a relationship?
Living well is the best revenge, as well as being the best healing. Treat yourself in small ways at least once a day, in big ways when resources allow.

Have a change of scene if at all possible but don't try to 'run away' too much or you may end up emotionally lost.

Turn your ex into a JOKE! All the stupid, inane, things he/she did or said can be used, indulge in cartooning, defacing photos, making up names, etc.
Avoid places or things you shared, use your intuition for when these can be enjoyed again (don't stick with them out of habit).

These worked for me. Best of luck & look ahead,love.