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Thread #86552   Message #1612783
Posted By: Moses
24-Nov-05 - 09:49 AM
Thread Name: BS: What did your ex do after you ?
Subject: RE: BS: What did your ex do after you ?
My ex drives an hour and a half most Sundays to cook me lunch and see the children (both of whom are older than 22)

This, despite his assurances that if I went ahead with the divorce I and the girls would never see him again!

We now get on much better than we did for the last 20 years of our marriage and I still care about what happens to him although I wouldn't want to "get back together" as a couple.

It is possible to remain on good terms - I think mainly in our case because we avoided the mud-slinging and viciousness that can happen when things break down. We still maintained a respect for each other even through the difficult times when we were divorced but still living in the same house (not recommended).

Guess I'm one of the lucky ones.