Mudcat Café message #1142174 The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #67653   Message #1142174
Posted By: jacqui.c
21-Mar-04 - 05:52 AM
Thread Name: BS: Dating Behaviour - am I out of touch ?
Subject: RE: BS: Dating Behaviour - am I out of touch ?
Sexual attraction is not always a good marker for a relationship. In my time I've met a number of guys who, on first showing, would be the type I would like to spend my life with. I even married one of them. Unfortunately a longer period of time showed up the differences between us.

In common with a lot of other people I find that the emotional switch is turned on by the closeness of sex. If, then, a relationship breaks down due to other factors it hurts badly and takes a lot of time to get over. So, for my part, I'll go into relationships slowly and hope to get to know the other person more as a friend before going that further step. If that is not accepted or respected then so be it.