Mudcat Café message #1139802 The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #67653   Message #1139802
Posted By: jacqui.c
18-Mar-04 - 05:17 AM
Thread Name: BS: Dating Behaviour - am I out of touch ?
Subject: RE: BS: Dating Behaviour - am I out of touch ?
Worried - There is absolutely nothing wrong with cuddling all night, in fact it is a wonderful thing if that's all both of you want. If it leads to more that's good too but just the feeling of closeness and security with anohter person is so worth it.

Givers and takers - we all have to learn to both give and to take. It's great being a giver but even givers ahve to recognise the pleasure felt by the giver and to learn to take from that person with graciousness. I think it's actually easier for givers to do this as there is less selfishness and more consideration of another person's feelings in general.