Mudcat Café message #1137888 The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #67653   Message #1137888
Posted By: freda underhill
16-Mar-04 - 07:01 AM
Thread Name: BS: Dating Behaviour - am I out of touch ?
Subject: RE: BS: Dating Behaviour - am I out of touch ?
hi bothered & b

maybe i should have logged out like everone else, but i havent.

i have made a couple of very good friends in the chat room, and had some great conversations (and some rather manic laughter sessions). sometimes when there are a lot of people in ther it can be overwhelming, like a rush in the supermarket.

some men/women have a hunting instinct and are looking for prey. they are after meat. they enjoy the fight of hunting something that belongs to someone else, and the bloodletting. for me, feminism means loyalty to other women. and that means putting them first, not intruding on someone elses relationship.

the 5 years thing is good. I felt like a piece of cardboard when i emerged from a decade and a half of my last relationship. i have had to gradually get used to myself as a single entity again.

last year the one very kind and gentlemanly man that i was interested in let me know carefully that he was not interested (craack). that was my first try for four years.


best wishes
freda