Mudcat Café message #1133043 The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #67653   Message #1133043
Posted By: bbc
10-Mar-04 - 10:36 AM
Thread Name: BS: Dating Behaviour - am I out of touch ?
Subject: RE: BS: Dating Behaviour - am I out of touch ?
Thanks for your comments, Allan. Part of what I was trying to say, at the end, is that I don't always know exactly what I want out of a relationship. That complicates things. It feels natural to flirt w/ some folks. That doesn't necessarily mean I want them in my pants. Perhaps it's better to try to control flirting, but, perhaps, the opposite sex should also give equal weight to the words that are said. Flirting can be a lot of fun for both parties, but I don't think it should be assumed to be foreplay.

I have found a lot of men I like, respect, &/or am attracted to. They are "out there." Unfortunately, in our age group, the majority of them are already in relationship.