Mudcat Café message #1131758 The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #67653   Message #1131758
Posted By: GUEST, who can't speak for all men, but
08-Mar-04 - 05:28 PM
Thread Name: BS: Dating Behaviour - am I out of touch ?
Subject: RE: BS: Dating Behaviour - am I out of touch ?
In answering to your original question I'd have to say a resounding "yes!" you are out of touch. Above someone said something about lifes too short. I'm afraid that in today's society, men your age will be wanting to explore every aspect of your relationship in short order. You can blame it on TV, on societal changes or whatever you want but the fact remains that most men will not be satisfied with hors d'oeuvres and soup of the day for very long without sampling the main course and dessert. This doesn't have to indicate a lack of respect for you. Finding you desireable and voicing the wish to act upon it is just being human. I'm sorry that you seem to think less of a man because of it. After all, the guys who keep their legs crossed for SIX MONTHS! aren't guaranteed to be gems either.

You are old fashioned but sometimes there is beauty in that.