Mudcat Café message #1131693 The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #67653   Message #1131693
Posted By: GUEST,I prefer to remain anon, too
08-Mar-04 - 03:54 PM
Thread Name: BS: Dating Behaviour - am I out of touch ?
Subject: RE: BS: Dating Behaviour - am I out of touch ?
Your experience could mean any number of things, really.
The men might be very attracted to you as a potential mate; they might be using dating for sex; they might be sex addicts; they might think this was their only chance at sex for several more days/weeks/months/, etc. etc. What do you think it meant?

    How long did it take you to sleep with your husband? Have you ever jumped into bed when you were attracted to someone? A man who likes you enough to wait can take no for an answer. Why are you so surprised that grown people want sex after two dates? You might want to explore your own expectations to see if they are unrealistic. Men almost always have more compeling sex drives than women. Surely you are aware of that?