Mudcat Café message #1068976 The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #64934   Message #1068976
Posted By: Amos
09-Dec-03 - 11:46 PM
Thread Name: Obit: My Wife
Subject: RE: Obit: My Wife

I think I understand. I can only suggest you make a little plan to take over one thing at a time, notice yourself managing it, and each time you succeed at something where once you depended on Heidi, acknowledge yourself and her as well. Pick up the hats one at a time, one small skill at a time, and give yourself plenty of breathing room and plenty of baby-step triumphs. This will gradually enable you to resume your own whole and entire beingness in the world as your own man. Nothing is more worthwhile.