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Thread #63952   Message #1044907
Posted By: GUEST,pdc
30-Oct-03 - 07:25 PM
Thread Name: BS: Bereavement
Subject: RE: BS: Bereavement
I understand exactly, Allison. It's like a thousand individual cuts a day, each of them drawing blood. Believe it or not, these awful little incidents and thoughts are necessary, to make your loss real. You "know" about your loss in your mind, but in your heart it still doesn't feel final, does it? Every repetition of those horrid little cuts reinforces what you need to accept. But it's hard, damn it's hard to go through it.

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