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GUEST,Patsy BS: It's truly over this time. Definitely. (37) RE: BS: It's truly over this time. Definitely. 28 Mar 15


There was a moment in my singledom that I contemplated going back with my ex husband of 19 years even though he was in a marriage with his new partner. I think he missed the relative peace of our relationship and as a controlling jealous person it would have been easy for him to slip back to how we were. But I knew that eventually he would have not been happy or supportive of me in my career and as I had grown into a different person in my heart of hearts I just did not trust his motives. For a start he would have wanted to control my new life friendships or perhaps end them no matter what gender they were. There was no way I wanted to change the me that I now am if you know what I mean. When I declined his nastiness did come out similar to your story. However, now I hear that things are not so great for his wife and I am so glad that I stuck to staying on my own. I wish you the best of luck it will get better!


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