Thanks, Spaw: I don't really do organised prayer groups myself, it doesn't press my buttons, though I know it helps others and that's fine.
I turn to my garden and my four-legged friends, but after losing a dear friend who became like a big sister a couple of years ago, I'm appreciating the sense of support here more and more.

So I'll keep dropping by and reading: if it helps focus, Terry's partner is Liz, and Kate's partner is Phil - both have their own circles of close friends, but both will need all the extra they can get in the next while.

Ranger1, you're very lucky to have such fond memories of your parents and I really hope it works out for you.

Oh and if that party ever happens, I have a couple of dessert recipes which seem popular, so I'm happy to contribute raspberry cheesecake and chocolate torte as required (sorry don't do diet versions!)

G'night now.

Paws